FEELINGS ARE NOT FAECES(or r they???)

well the title may seem to b a little out of the way..feelings being compared to faeces..now come on we ve infinite better metaphors for feelings and emotions..but then the tilte is about wat feelins aren't than wat they actually are(to explain the latter is not my cup of tea)..well last nite i was into a byzantine conversation with a very close friend of mine..(as all gr8 things this was also on the net i.e. chatting)
it was myself who had started askin bout her gf(or shud i sayX gf)..well may be im not able to tell the full story but the highlights of the talk were only a few unanswered questions..
why can't we be rational in love or can practical person(like we engg.) ever fall in the ditch named love?
i will brief u bout our love birds(or doves to be precise)..the guy is into his third year engg. from IIT powaii..u know wat it takes to get ther--SACRIFICES..many of them..i know he won't like this but he has missed sum quality time that some of we other friends spent only to get where he is now...the very summit of achievements as for a teen..
the gal is into her MBA first year from b'lore(now distance does matters) and as far as i know she is a sensible girl(but after all she is a girl)..
so they became net frenz and talkd and met and liked each other and fell in luv(..and finally look like departin)..
so wat was the problem..well as the guy is my friend the problem obviously was the gal..she needed sum commitments..marrying and all that..now as a practical person the guy tries his best to keep his stand,sort things out but life is not so beautiful..
now back to wher i started..the guy doesn't wanna loose her completely but the problem is he can't ve her all either..so wat shud he do???he won't commit(actually he can't coz success has just touched his feet and he has to reach the heights)..
CAN WE TRANSFORM LOVE INTO FRIENDSHIP??
this was his question to which i instantaneously answered FEELINGS ARE NOT FAECES..we just can't flush away the present emotions that we ve for sum1 and install some new ones...life would ve been much easier that way..every morning freshen up urself for some new feelings towards ne1..no my friend its sort of a database..every single moment that u ve spent with that girl is stored..and thts why it keeps knockin back..u keep on missin her..
so what's the solution..well its already there and is always there..the unisyllable, fourth dimension better known as TIME..they were rite who said its the best healer..indeed it is..so i hope we see the guy gettin over all this and makin his mark in this world..(and in my world too coz its not the same as his i guesss)...

rendezvous

hereby i welcome myself to the world of bloggin..may it spice up my life a lil bit more..